like all moves, it was not easy, until it was over, then it
seemed easy... by comparison. It was the lead up to moving that was the long
process ~ a mere six months. A lot longer than eleven years ago when Narda
helped me move out of my home in Christies Beach, South Australia on a 41 C
(that is over one-hundred Fahrenheit) day and it seemed I had no concept of
de-cluttering @ the time.
Eleven years later I know the concept but the reality has failed
to integrate. Back in 2000 we just shoved it all in her father's van and
trailer and headed to Adelaide. Now after nine years in the States, the last
three in Jersey City it was time to move on. We packed our main collectables
and had a freight company pick them up a couple of weeks ago to ship to Dalian,
China. I just received an e-mail that said we went over our 2500 pound
agreement and now we need to pay $600 more. What??? our precious little
collectables weigh more than 2500 pounds? "But dear they were just a few souvenirs I picked up
along the way on our travels of the past decade"
This particular move, once the 2500 pounds + memorabilia was
ready to sail the ocean blue across the great Atlantic (as we wish to avoid the Great Pacific
Garbage Patch) Was OK. We have
rented our house in Jersey City to four chaps from India who say they will take good care of our
home. They are in their 20s and computer people. Of course they will keep our
home tidy. They may even have some mates come visit from India time to time - I
suppose if 0001% of the 1,155,347,700 population over there are
coming to visit that would be 11553 friends ... oh dear!
We shoved every thing in the car including Brendan and me, dropped
off the Comcast cable stuff and drove to our new apartment (for 17 days) in
Harlem - a really nice place I might add. Once Narda met us we dragged our
meager belongings (minus the 2500 pounds waiting its turn for hijacking off the
coast of somewhere). Same day we sold the car, well we sold it two days before
but the buyer needed to wait to get insurance, nerve (he has never owned a car
before) and the what-nots so I was there for him later. OK he did not get all
his bits and pieces on Tuesday so on Wednesday he fronted up with insurance
papers, license plates and the what-nots of a proud first-owner-car owner. Of
course he had not realised it was a stick shift (our almost new 1995 Honda
Civic with some rust as proof we lived in the snowy northern parts of New York
for years) and he had not really driven a whole lot, but he did have his
driver's license. SO I drove the first leg of the journey of one of life's
great explorations (teaching someone to drive on a crowded Harlem street).
"Be sure the clutch is in (this is the clutch) when you shift gears and
slowly let out..." - I think that is what I said. I explained the speeds
one should be at whilst in first, second and all those other gears. I showed
reverse, the blinkers and said that Narda favours having the emergency brake on
when stopping on a hill. Of course I never do, I mean what is that bloody
clutch there for anyway? But knowing how horrified she gets with my hill stops
and she is always right (she tells me that so it must be true) so I passed on
some form, howbeit probably a bit abbreviated, of the etiquette of hill stops.
Then it was his turn, Tommy, the new car owner. Blimey! We
lurched and ground and stopped suddenly and took off quickly and made darting
turns down one-way streets (the other directional one-way) and I told him to
ignore the cars beeping in their out-of-tune fashion (now there is a job for
Narda; tune up the horns of NYC drivers so that they sound.... well, in-tune, I
suppose) and just get comfortable with the driving experience.
Somehow we managed to get back to our new address in Harlem. I
was so in shock that I muttered something about he was doing well and it is
really a practice thing until driving becomes intuitive and I thanked someone I
was still alive (I was so in shock it was probably god as there was no one else
around) and collapsed on the bed of our new abode. Of course then I realised I
had left our New Jersey license plates on the back seat and I would have to see
Tommy again. I texted him and he wrote back that he loved the car (which
dispelled any lingering doubt whether there is some higher protective good
force looking after the Tommys of the world) and of course it meant he got back
home to his wife (she has never driven before) and their child (oh dear is the
baby going to drive this car?) and that he would get the plates back. This is
Thursday afternoon and I suppose I should ring and find out when these plates
will arrive, but I am afraid he may have missed a turn or forgot my handbrake
lesson and is at the bottom of the Hudson.
And that is this week's move.
We get to explore this really groovy looking area of Harlem -
145th street and Saint Nicholas (the gift giving dude). I got to the
local gym and of course everyone looks so much more fit than me and they play
hip hop (well this is that kind of area) but I will look good by the time we
leave in 16 more days, flying over to Australia with way too much stuff then on
to China where hopefully some of our boxes float to shore.